What struck us was that
before we came that day, they asked us to fill out a very long application with
our medical history, and background. They remembered so much of what we had
written down, that was a good sign. Within a few minutes he had us laughing, he
himself had used a surrogate to help him build his family and he was so happy
with his experience and his beautiful sons. He asked us about our journey to
date and my husband did most of the talking. We asked him many questions and he
even laughed out loud a few times since some of them were probably a little
crazy. Next came an attorney who went over the legal aspect of the journey, and
this was the section were we had the most questions and concerns, he was great
and all of our questions at that time were answered. Lastly they went over the
financial aspect of the journey. All of this was a huge commitment, a possible
life changing game decision. We left the meeting feeling good. They answered
every question we had and now, they were allowing us to digest all of this
information for a few days. A few days later we spoke with another agency, but
we kept going back to Circle, we felt that they were a great agency. We told
Dean and Doug that we were ‘in’ and from that point on, we went on to the
plethora of legal documents, living wills, power of attorney forms, more
medical testing, FDA testing, background checks, psychological tests and much,
much more. It was a huge undertaking to complete all of this but we knew our
future surrogate was doing this, plus then some and we were grateful already.
For the first time in a while we saw a glimmer of hope. Game on.
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
Welcome to the best agency EVER… Intended Parents' Side
Previously my husband
and I looked at a few different surrogacy agencies. We asked around at the time
to our current physician and also to anyone we knew that may have gone down
this journey. One of the main things we were looking for was a large
trustworthy agency with a good history, and a quick matching period. We
narrowed it down to 2 agencies and decided to meet with Circle first, because
frankly they were a block from my husband’s office at the time in the city. We
met with them on June 29, 2012. We walked into the office and were surprised at
how large it was. The legal floor was on a separate floor. We were quickly met
by a man named Doug, who worked at Circle. We went into the “family meeting
room” I believe it was called. We sat on a large couch and tried to act like
this was just another typical day.
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Oh hooray! I am so thrilled to read the IP side of things too. This blog is going to be awesome in every way. All of the steps and milestones from both perspectives. Very cool!
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